lover, why do you leave?

I'm having a hard time figuring out the human population. Some people just don't add up in my opinion. I don't get why people need to lie about certain things.

Why people lie, especially to people they care about? I wish people wouldn't get away with shit like that. I have this "friend" who constantly lies about the littlest (& biggest) things. All I wish is to call her out on these lies but how am I supposed to do it? I know if I do, she'll lie to cover it and it'll just end up in one big cycle and end up making me look like the bad guy. I hate being lied too. There's nothing more that irks me. I just don't GET why people lie.

Then there's my boss. He's a nice guy, good boss, but he's got some sort of self-esteem issues. He thinks he's mister hot stuff and that's why I think he has self esteem issues. He puts everyone down around him and thinks he's all that and a bag of chips. The other day he made a comment that the tomato's were the size of my breasts. Who makes a comment like that to their employee? Seriously. What if I was really self conscious about my breasts? I'm not at all but what if I was? That would seriously hurt. The only reason he said this was to make himself, somehow feel better. He gets his kicks from putting others down. Don't we hit a certain age and point in our life where we stop picking on people? I'm realizing that we don't. Well some of us don't. When he made the comment I felt like I was in high school all over again. Except this time I didn't take it. I told him he was an asshole for saying that. In high school, I would have walked away and cried. I know I've grown up since then, but what about the rest of the world?

These are two examples on why I don't get people and their motives.